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CLASSIC BDSM + FËTISH TRAINING APPLICATION

IMPORTANT!

 

Make sure you have read through My protocol page - HERE - before submitting your application. 

 

I would recommend reviewing My protocol page a few times throughout O/our initial correspondence so that you are familiar with My preferences. The information requested is for the benefit and safety of all participating parties. All sections are there for a reason, so do not leave anything blank. I do not respond to applications that have been rushed, partially or improperly filled out. 

To ensure privacy and discretion I do not use online web forms for in-person training. To apply, copy and paste the form below into your email, fill out and send to My encrypted email: 

 

here to serve heidi at protonmail dot com

Keep in mind I only respond to thoughtful and sincere applications that have been filled out completely. If you leave any parts blank, rush through or leave minimal information you will not receive a response. 

Hello, Mistress.

1. my name/alias is:

2. my email is:

3. i am based in this time zone:

4. my pronouns are:

( ) he/him

( ) she/her

( ) they/them

( ) all of the above

( ) other

5. i identify as:

( ) a man

( ) a woman

( ) non-binary

( ) gender non-conforming

( ) gender queer

( ) intersex

( ) my gender is not listed  

( ) i am not sure what my gender is 

( ) prefer not to say

 

6. i am:

( ) straight

( ) queer

( ) bisexual

( ) gay

( ) pansexual

( ) asexual

( ) other

( ) i am not sure 

7. i am a:

( ) submissive

( ) masochist

( ) fëtishist

( ) other/not sure

8. my BDSM experience is:

( ) none

( ) novice

( ) moderately experienced

( ) seasoned

9. i see that you offer distance and in-person training.

i understand that a reference is required for in-person training and if i am unable to provide references i must first begin distance training until you decide i am ready for in-person training. 

 

am interested in:

( ) distance training

( ) in-person training and i can provide references

( ) both

10. REFERENCES:

References are an essential requirement for in-person training. A reference is the website and/or social media handle of an established provider you have served in the recent past.

 

If you are not able to provide a reference for at least 2 providers, you will only be considered for distance training. After you have served from a distance, Mistress Heidi will decide if and when moving forward with in-person training is appropriate. 

Choose the correct option for you below:

( ) i have not served anyone previously so i do not have references. i understand that means i must first begin distance training until You decide i am ready for in-person training.

( ) i have experience serving other Dommes or providers but cannot provide a reference. i understand that means i must first begin distance training until You decide i am ready for in-person training.

( ) i have served other Mistresses/providers in the past, here are their websites and/or social media handles (2 or more references are ideal for the vetting process):

i corresponded with the previous providers using the same email address i am using OR i used the following email or phone number to converse with them:

if you provided references above, please specify which city you are based in for training:

( ) NYC

( ) Boston

( ) Los Angeles

( ) Other

11. i am available to connect during these days/times:

day/s + time/s:

12. i would like to connect with You for this amount of time:

 

distance training

( ) 30 mins

( ) 1 hour

( ) 1 hour +

 

in-person training 

( ) 90 mins

( ) 2 hours

( ) 3 hours

( ) 4 hours

( ) extended/overnight

13. i would love to explore the following activities with You but i understand play and activity are at Your discretion:

14. my pain tolerance is:

( ) light

( ) medium

( ) heavy

( ) not sure

( ) i don’t like pain.

15. i can leave with marks if:

( ) they last a few hours

( ) they last a few days

( ) destroy me, Mistress!

( ) i cannot leave with marks.

16. i love hearing these words/terms/expressions directed towards me or the scene during play. they excite me:

17. i dislike hearing these words/terms/expressions directed towards me or the scene during play. they will take me out of my happy place:

18. i have sensitivities to scents/incense:

( ) yes

( ) no

19. my limits are:

20. i am on this medication/s:

21. i have these medical conditions/allergies/health issues:

22. my aftercare needs are:

23. Mistress i found you via:

( ) Twitter

( ) Sextpanther

( ) Niteflirt

( ) Instagram 

( ) Other (please specify)

24. Option to participate in HAILHEIDI fëtish and video creations as a submissive:

( ) if my face and identity are hidden, yes Mistress!

( ) no thank you, Mistress.

( ) make me a star, Mistress!

25. Yes, i understand there are no sëxual services offered:

( ) yes!

Once you have sent this application, be sure to check your spam folder.

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