CLASSIC BDSM + FËTISH TRAINING APPLICATION
IMPORTANT!
Make sure you have read through My protocol page - HERE - before submitting your application.
I would recommend reviewing My protocol page a few times throughout O/our initial correspondence so that you are familiar with My preferences. The information requested is for the benefit and safety of all participating parties. All sections are there for a reason, so do not leave anything blank. I do not respond to applications that have been rushed, partially or improperly filled out.
To ensure privacy and discretion I do not use online web forms for in-person training. To apply, copy and paste the form below into your email, fill out and send to My encrypted email:
serve heidi @ pm . me
Keep in mind I only respond to thoughtful and sincere applications that have been filled out completely. If you leave any parts blank, rush through or leave minimal information you will not receive a response.
Hello, Mistress.
1. my name/alias is:
2. my email is:
3. i am based in this time zone:
4. my pronouns are:
( ) he/him
( ) she/her
( ) they/them
( ) all of the above
( ) other
5. i identify as:
( ) a man
( ) a woman
( ) non-binary
( ) gender non-conforming
( ) gender queer
( ) intersex
( ) my gender is not listed
( ) i am not sure what my gender is
( ) prefer not to say
6. i am:
( ) straight
( ) queer
( ) bisexual
( ) gay
( ) pansexual
( ) asexual
( ) other
( ) i am not sure
7. i am a:
( ) submissive
( ) masochist
( ) fëtishist
( ) other/not sure
8. my BDSM experience is:
( ) none
( ) novice
( ) moderately experienced
( ) seasoned
9. i see that you offer distance and in-person training.
i understand that a reference is required for in-person training and if i am unable to provide references i must first begin distance training until you decide i am ready for in-person training.
i am interested in:
( ) distance training
( ) in-person training and i can provide references
( ) both
10. REFERENCES:
References are an essential requirement for in-person training. A reference is the website and/or social media handle of an established provider you have served in the recent past.
If you are not able to provide a reference for at least 2 providers, you will only be considered for distance training. After you have served from a distance, Mistress Heidi will decide if and when moving forward with in-person training is appropriate.
Choose the correct option for you below:
( ) i have not served anyone previously so i do not have references. i understand that means i must first begin distance training until You decide i am ready for in-person training.
( ) i have experience serving other Dommes or providers but cannot provide a reference. i understand that means i must first begin distance training until You decide i am ready for in-person training.
( ) i have served other Mistresses/providers in the past, here are their websites and/or social media handles (2 or more references are ideal for the vetting process):
i corresponded with the previous providers using the same email address i am using OR i used the following email or phone number to converse with them:
if you provided references above, please specify which city you are based in for training:
( ) NYC
( ) Boston
( ) Los Angeles
( ) Other
11. i am available to connect during these days/times:
day/s + time/s:
12. i would like to connect with You for this amount of time:
distance training
( ) 30 mins
( ) 1 hour
( ) 1 hour +
in-person training
( ) 90 mins
( ) 2 hours
( ) 3 hours
( ) 4 hours
( ) extended/overnight
13. i would love to explore the following activities with You but i understand play and activity are at Your discretion:
14. my pain tolerance is:
( ) light
( ) medium
( ) heavy
( ) not sure
( ) i don’t like pain.
15. i can leave with marks if:
( ) they last a few hours
( ) they last a few days
( ) destroy me, Mistress!
( ) i cannot leave with marks.
16. i love hearing these words/terms/expressions directed towards me or the scene during play. they excite me:
17. i dislike hearing these words/terms/expressions directed towards me or the scene during play. they will take me out of my happy place:
18. i have sensitivities to scents/incense:
( ) yes
( ) no
19. my limits are:
20. i am on this medication/s:
21. i have these medical conditions/allergies/health issues:
22. my aftercare needs are:
23. Mistress i found you via:
( ) Sextpanther
( ) Niteflirt
( ) Other (please specify)
24. Option to participate in HAILHEIDI fëtish and video creations as a submissive:
( ) if my face and identity are hidden, yes Mistress!
( ) no thank you, Mistress.
( ) make me a star, Mistress!
25. Yes, i understand there are no sëxual services offered:
( ) yes!
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